Your child’s first mobile phone

Choosing the right time and device for your child’s first mobile phone is a big milestone. It’s not just about picking a model, it’s about fostering responsibility, safety, and open communication. Here’s a guide to help you navigate this decision.

1. Assess Your Child’s Readiness

Before buying a phone, consider your child’s maturity and ability to manage the responsibilities that come with mobile use. The ACMA notes that while mobile ownership among children is increasing, it’s important to evaluate whether your child is ready for the digital world and the responsibilities it brings.

2. Set Clear Expectations and Boundaries

Establish ground rules to help your child understand responsible mobile use. Discuss topics such as appropriate usage times, acceptable apps, privacy settings, and consequences for misuse. Tools like the My First Mobile Phone Agreement can help structure these conversations and ensure everyone is on the same page.

3. Choose the Right Device

Select a device that matches your child’s needs and your family’s values:

  • Feature Phones: Basic phones with limited internet access and apps, reducing exposure to online risks.

  • Smartphones with Parental Controls: Smartphones that allow internet access but include built-in or third-party parental controls to monitor and limit usage.

4. Implement Parental Controls

Parental control tools allow you to manage your child’s mobile usage by setting screen time limits, blocking inappropriate content, monitoring app downloads, and even tracking location. The eSafety Commissioner provides guidance on selecting and using parental control tools effectively.

5. Educate About Online Safety

Maintaining open communication is key. Talk with your child about:

  • Recognising and avoiding scams and cyberbullying

  • The importance of privacy settings

  • The impact of sharing personal information online

The eSafety Commissioner’s resources for parents provide practical guidance for having these conversations and supporting safe online behaviour.

 

Buying your child their first mobile phone is a chance to teach responsibility and digital citizenship. By assessing readiness, setting clear rules, choosing the right device, implementing parental controls, and talking about online safety, you can help your child navigate the digital world confidently and safely.

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